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The only guys who are going to approach you are the guys with no boundaries. Which is going to feed the confirmation bias.
I was going to respond at least somewhat affirming what you said and then I saw who you linked. Gross. Can't stand BilleRaeBrandt. Nothing but an apologist for misogyny.
I don't know who that is, I simply searched "men not approaching" in YouTube search. There's no shortage of similar contradictory content. Women are not a monolith, so it stands to reason that some genuinely don't want to be approached at all, and some do, but since we're not psychic, that just leaves respectful men not approaching as a default position.
I guess she is a youtuber or tiktoker or whatever who makes short videos about hetero relationship issues that (as far as I have ever seen) always blame the woman for why things have gone wrong with their dating attempts or existing relationships, etc. It's never the man's fault.