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[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

The ACTUAL meaning of negging is not 'teasing,' but:

  • say/do something to imply you're not attracted/interested in them
  • eithee lowers their self esteem til they're "at your level," or
  • it supposedly gives them a burning desire to be desired by you, to rise to that challenge

In this sense it can be seen as a toxic extension to the "playing hard to get" concept.

It was pushed by american media and by pickup artists/ later by manosphere influencers