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To not give them your data, you can't interact in their ecosystems. Their ecosystems are the community writ large, so by voluntarily removing yourself from those ecosystems, you're voluntarily removing yourself from the parts of society that they've squatted on. Ergo, removing yourself from society (with a sprinkle of hyperbole, since it was sarcasm)
Without you having signed up to Facebook, if anyone you know who has your phone number has signed up and shared your contact info, then they know your name, who you know, your phone number, which they can then use to associate you to any online interaction where you've also given your phone number. They have an idea of the demographics you belong to, political stance (not having a Facebook or Instagram gives them a lot of info for that), and a general vibe of who you are. Source: The exposure after the Cambridge Analytica Scandal
You pointing out that maybe the victims are to blame for their data being in the hands of megacorps surely must imply that you think personal responsibility is the only recourse we have for this. But maybe I read that wrong and you just had no further thoughts beyond what you literally wrote down. Victim blaming for the game of it.
Which is why I don't give anyone my phone number.
Once again, that never happened, you just made it up, and I don't appreciate it.
Happy for you, chief. I'm sure that makes it real useful to have, then, since no one knows it to call you.
Cool, how am I supposed to read this, then?
Does that not read "if they have your data, you're the one who gave it to them"? Explain it to me, because I'm clearly not understanding
I meant I don't give it to companies, because I know that's why they want it.
How about exactly how it's fucking written? Without making shit up? Do you think you can do that?
If you have given it to a person who has any account anywhere that has anything remotely to do with meta-owned entities, and they did not explicitly say no to sharing contacts info (basically just one person giving FB messenger access to their phone contacts), then meta has your phone number, name and a whole bunch of scarily accurate extrapolated data on you and other sources they correlate that with.
They might have my name and number. They don't have anything to connect that information to, because I don't give it.
You'd be surprised. If you have ever ordered, or booked, something online, they will absolutely have something to connect that to and from there they keep pulling.
Dude, I told you I don't understand how what you've written is different from what I've said, so maybe start there? I can see the literal words you wrote, thanks. I'm trying to get to the meaning you're attempting to convey, dude.
Like are you saying "people shouldn't have given their data to these companies", then my entire argument until now applies. It's not really an opt-out situation, unless you refuse to play ball with these companies.
Are you saying "companies shouldn't have this data"? Like, fair, but I'm not certain how what you're saying conveys this point.
What are attempting to say because I clearly don't understand it with those words in that order. Give more context to what you mean, please. I genuinely want to understand but I can't parse what you're trying to say beyond what I parroted back at you. And it's not some failure on your part, I am a certifiable idiot sometimes when it comes to this shit.