If your schedule is not actually fully booked you have the time, ADHD or not...you don't have the energy, which is something entirely different, but also valid.

[–] bisby@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

People don't always speak literally. So trying to be pedantic about the literal meaning of "time" when they were using it non-lierally doesn't make you more right.

They conveyed "no" which was the actual important part of the message

[–] ExcessShiv@lemmy.dbzer0.com -2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Saying you have no time when it's actually lack of energy is just poor communication skills, it's not about being literal.

[–] Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago

If the message they’re communicating is “no” and not the exact details of why they’re saying no, “I don’t have time” is perfectly adequate. Everyone isn’t entitled to the exact details of why someone is refusing to do something. I’m not telling you if I’m refusing because I have severe diarrhea.

[–] Rooster326@programming.dev 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I would argue saying anything except "No" is poor communication skills.

If you aren't willing to negotiate then don't give them anything to negotiate on.