I just offer the back of my hand, below the height of her head, a couple feet away, then hold still. To the cat, it's a very non-threatening position, and they can decide whether to engage or not. (I usually get to pet the kitty!)

[–] Rednax@lemmy.world 13 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Don't forget to slow blink at the kitty and look away for a bit every now and then.

[–] SkyeLight@piefed.social 9 points 22 hours ago

Oh - and, looking slightly away from them, yawn widely with your eyes closed, then lick your lips a few times.