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i have some good men in my life, but it still doesn't help. my reasons for hating are probably a little strange, and I can't even discuss it with anyone without being told to go to hell, and I have to deal with it on my own.

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[–] ThePowerOfGeek@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

I assume you're a woman, but it doesn't really matter.

As a man myself, I find the majority of men I interact with annoying. So I think I kinda know how you feel.

It's good that you have some good men in your life. But if that's not helping then it might be better to just minimize interactions with them as much as possible (without alienating the good ones). It's like if you have a food allergy, it's easier to just avoid that food. Hell, maybe you're allergic to men! lol