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My younger brother is screaming in pain... (lemmygrad.ml)
submitted 19 hours ago by Makan@lemmygrad.ml to c/comradeship@lemmygrad.ml
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I would like to help him but I don't know what to do...

His screams echo through the house due to a lower back muscle spasm that he got recently, likely due to a herniated disc in his spine or something. He's never gone through this before, I think. He's almost 26, but our family has a history of back problems (and heart problems) for whatever reason. Don't know if that could mean something.

I am a lot older than him and have never had back trouble, EVER. But how can my younger brother have such immense pain in his mid-twenties? I thought back problems only grew more acute later on, such as in your 40s or 50s? I believe we will at least have the x-ray results soon.

I live in Virginia and am wondering if there is a better place nearby to take him than just the Inova hospital around around here. He is being taken right now to the hospital nearby.

His screams trigger flashbacks and traumatic thoughts and memories in my head (doesn't help that I have misophonia). So yeah, fun, fun, fun...

Anyway, let me know what you think because I could use some suggestions.

Just want to know how I can help and what I can do.

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[–] solrize@lemmy.ml 1 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Geez if he is in that much agony he needs immediate medical attention. Save therapy for later.

[–] snek_boi@lemmy.ml 1 points 13 hours ago

Thanks for the recommendation. I agree. And so does OP’s brother or his caretakers, because OP’s brother was being taken to the hospital when OP posted.