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i would really like to have a feature that would make me an object of fetishization, so that at least someone would care about me. (lemmy.world)
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[–] PointyFluff@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago

Yeah...so 20 years as a Firefighter, and I can tell you that you absolutely do not want to be an object of fetishization. Many vapid empty sexual encounters with people who I thought loved me, but only loved the fantasy of me and my job. It's utterly soul crushing when you are disposed of for the latest fetish or interest.