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A place to share screenshots of Microblog posts, whether from Mastodon, tumblr, ~~Twitter~~ X, KBin, Threads or elsewhere.

Created as an evolution of White People Twitter and other tweet-capture subreddits.

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  1. Your post must be a screen capture of a microblog-type post that includes the UI of the site it came from, preferably also including the avatar and username of the original poster. Including relevant comments made to the original post is encouraged.
  2. Your post, included comments, or your title/comment should include some kind of commentary or remark on the subject of the screen capture. Your title must include at least one word relevant to your post.
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[–] cynar@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Most doctors I've spoken to have been quite happy to work with me rather than against me.

The unfortunate trick is you need to self educate to speak a bit more in their language. You also need to accept they are often working within rules that are unintuitive.

E.g. I prefer a particular brand drug Vs the generics. (The delivery method was slightly different) I had to cycle through the generics so they could tick them off in the system. Otherwise it would try to automatically shift me to a generic.

[–] HugeNerd@lemmy.ca -2 points 3 days ago (2 children)
[–] cynar@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I'm guessing you just mouth off at doctors, and so get treated like an idiot.

[–] HugeNerd@lemmy.ca -1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Guess again! I hope you never have to deal with what I deal with, but in a way I do. Suffering is a great teacher.

[–] cynar@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

If you smell dog shit, check the ground. If you constantly smell dog shit, check your shoe.

Most doctors are trying to help as many people as possible, as quickly as possible. 80-90% are fine to work with you, within their workflow. If every doctor you encounter is in the 10% then either you're VERY unlucky, or you are the problem element.

[–] HugeNerd@lemmy.ca -1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I am an atheist, but I am summoning any and all deities or demiurges to visit a disease upon you, hopefully chronic, hopefully painful, hopefully trivially easy to treat, that you have this knowledge, and that every doctor will simply shrug and ignore you.

This seems to be the only way people learn. It is unfortunate.

[–] cynar@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Been there done that. How do you think I learnt to self advocate properly?

I don't blame the doctors. They did their best in the time and with the information available to them. I didn't fit the mould so they missed it again and again.

I could have done with the right treatment 20 years earlier, but I got there.

[–] sukhmel@programming.dev 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

You might also be male, having health issues while being female seems to have a side effect of not being treated properly much more often. But that's anecdotal, because I don't want to search for statistics

[–] cynar@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

Women definitely have it harder. I've seen statistics that back that up too.

Women have more variance in their health, mostly linked to their hormonal cycle. That drastically widens the range of 'normal' for them as a group. An individual patient might be highly abnormal for herself, but within the bounds of 'average normal'. A good doctor, with time will account for that. Unfortunately most lack the time.

The fact that doctors are traditionally male doesn't help. Add in a few women overreacting to feed the stereotypes and we end up with the current situation.

It seems to be improving slowly, based on what I've seen, but it's still got a long way to go.

[–] TRock@feddit.dk 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)
[–] HugeNerd@lemmy.ca -3 points 3 days ago

You're a psychopath. An excellent candidate for medical school. Did you apply?