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Because it is, or are you of the impression that calling someone a bitch isn't an insult? Seems to me it's still a pejorative, same with all the other 'reappropriated' words except for the n-word (contextually, I've heard black people use it as an insult too so go ahead and figure that one out for me).
There's not much to figure out. If I use a certain tone, the word "queer" will still be used as pejorative, even if it's mostly not these days. It sounds like you don't really understand what you are complaining about, unless you have more to say to make your point?
The English language is not a tonal language, and it's interesting that you bring it up — because I have only heard queer used as a pejorative.
Reappropriation does not work.
Then you haven't been paying attention for the last 30+ years. "We're here, we're queer, get used to it" has been an activist chant since the 90s, started by a group called Queer Nation. The Q in LGBTQ+ stands for queer. If you were involved with the queer community, you would know that it is used as a self-identifier for any non-heteronormative person regularly these days.
No I've heard the chant, what I disagree with is that it's actually had an effect on how the word is perceived.
For example, call a former inmate a bitch or a queer. Hell, call random men bitches or queers. Examine the results.
If they're a non-hetero person and you use it casually, I highly doubt they'll give a shit. If you use it like a pejorative, then is one. Like the word "Jew". That's the common word for those in that religion/ethnicity and very often used to self identify. But in certain contexts with certain intonation, it's understood to be a slur. The N word is less polite even among black people, but it's still a common word used to self identify for those in the black community, but is still very much a slur when used by those outside the community. Calling someone a genius can be a compliment, or an insult depending on context. Both can be true.
No I'm pretty sure you can apply a positive context to your use of the word and there are people who will still flip out at you about it.
I don't really care, there are certain things I can't stop — performative activism is one of them.