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Sorry you had to deal with that. It sounds like a disappointing experience. I hope you feel welcome here.
To add to all the good answers already given: there's also a lot of racism involved. There are people who genuinely think of themselves as leftists and who might not think they are being racist, but the internalized chauvinism still clouds their judgement. They are unable to fully feel the weight and importance of non-western/non-white peoples thoughts and emotions. Those just register less to them and feel distant and less real. Even to self-proclaimed anti-racists. That's one contributing reason to why they don't notice the contradiction in their values, which you mentioned.
One antidote to that is genuine human connection to bridge the racist empathy gap. Historic materialist analysis helps a lot too, of course, but it's not always enough in my experience. Look for the ones who have close non-western friends, partners and family who are affected by NATO wars, they tend to learn faster.