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[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Do you know how many years it takes to adopt a kid, assuming that you actually do get to adopt one and aren't turned down?

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That was exactly my point. It absolutely qualifies as "trying to/working on having a kid", definitely as much or more so than tracking cycles for unprotected sex. Similar for the IVF process.

It's work and it's not easy.

[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Making a kid probably takes a year (<3 months to try and conceive, 9 months for pregnancy) or so, unless you have issues with fertility. Adoption can take, like, a decade, assuming that you are considered a suitable adoptive parent in the first place. (I'm pretty sure that many places discriminate against disabled people here, and almost everywhere you have to be married.)