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The cloud? You mean someone else's computer? ๐คฃ
That's actually my recommendation yes.
If somehow after a month you feel like you do want this "lifestyle", are comfortable with setting up a VPN (if you need external access) THEN spend more and get your a SBI like a RPi and have it at home. If that's still not enough then go up to a proper server you host, use a non commercial ISP, etc ... but IMHO don't start with a server at home if you are not familiar with all this, it's counter intuitively harder and definitely more expensive.
Also FWIW you should still have an offsite backup regardless of how you do it.
I get where you're coming from (and why) but am of the "rip the bandaid off clean in one go" school of thought.
A smaller start (like using that RPI to self host Jellyfin server for your home) puts you on the road to sovereignty straight away. A Pi 4 costs what....$60 (plus $30 for power supply and SD card)? Hell, use an old laptop.
Once you have one thing running, your on the right path for the next and the next.
Doing it on the cloud I think is paradoxically harder and ultimately self defeating.
Don't get me wrong - if you need the cloud (say, you need to rent a H100 for a few hours to fine tune your LLM), I'm all for it. But if sovereignty is to goal - and the gateway drug is a SBC and a few days / weeks of self learning...you may as well start eating the elephant. IMHO and YMMV of course.
IMHO the key aspect isn't where you host things but rather understanding how hosting itself works.
To me the most challenging aspects are how to :
and also ideally
For that very first step I would say having a machine directly exposed to the Internet makes it easier. I don't know what ISP you use but at least in Belgium where I'm currently located all ports are closed and IP are dynamic. That means if you want to show your freshly started Apache Web server to your mother in law it will challenging.
Meanwhile if you do manage to get to the last step, namely restore your entire setup, then restoring to a cloud service or a RPi is the same, you transfer your data, start your services and voila, you are back either LAN only or on the entire Internet via a cloud provider.
So autonomy isn't as much as to where things are physically hosted and by whom as in the actual capacity to able to host there or elsewhere.
Finally if you are using a commercial ISP, as opposed to having your own AS, are you really self-hosting?
For sure. I can dig where you're coming from.
For me, I wanted to replace cloud based services for my personal use / in home as primary motivation; it's only very recently that I am considering things like setting out-of-LAN access for broader family.
(I do have a minimal off site back up (to a raspberry pi stored at my parents home), but obviously this is not enterprise level infra).
My personal quirk is power management. Yes, my rig only uses about 80-100 w...but I can't stop day dreaming creating a fall over system / bespoke UPS. Back of napkin calc suggest that a single marine / car battery should be able to store enough juice to run it (and my router) for 24hrs. Clunky as it is...the DIY nature of that really appeals to me
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