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I think being specific and not complimenting someone based on their physical appearance goes a long way to not making it weird.
I complemented someone's sashiko work on her pants and it wasn't weird or uncomfortable.
i just don't interact because also I know a lot of people (me, my partner) don't want to be perceived by others at all even if I weren't being a big man about it