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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (4 children)

She’s veryyyyyy quiet today, especially for it being her birthday and all. No toilet poetry, no blabbing in her car, absolutely nothing except sharing birthday wishes from all her fake friends. Hasn’t even showed her mug today.

Anyone think she’ll post a photo of her kissing a girl at midnight??? I can def see it to garner some more attention,

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I think this is a good theory! She loves the engagement and we know her diehard fans would cheer on anything she does.

If they did split and L is not home she will never be able to play the I miss her or cry about Sunday drop offs because everyone has seen her leave her family behind for very non-impactful galavanting.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

This woman went on a trip right before Christmas and didn’t see her. Did the token Christmas with her kids, then haven’t seen her again since. L has been on Christmas break for 12 days now and she hasn’t spent a single fun moment with her over the holidays, other than the obligatory holiday one.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

It is very strange she hasn’t spent any time with that kid the whole Xmas break, once the advent calendar ended she stopped caring about the kid. I def think Shame took her to his folks or maybe to wherever he’s staying right now?? Because it doesn’t seem like she’s been around at all.

[–] Kar@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago

I wonder if there is a separation in process that includes not showing or mentioning her on social media anymore. Another influencer who only occasionally showed her kids separated and noted they wouldn’t be part of her content anymore.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

You’re bang on!

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

Wow! Your right! Not a single special touch for the littlest. 🥺

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I wonder if her “fans” are questioning why she has gone from chronically online to hiding?

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Wonder what she is trying to accomplish. If Shame and L are spending time together and she’s alone - she loves it that way. But Bird is terrified of judgement so this is probably the only thing she can think to do that might make her appear to care.

Or she’s doing it for us? Or by not posting nonstop, as she always has, she can pretend it looks like she’s having so much fun she forgot to post?

Whatever it is, it’s manipulative and tactical.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

She never misses the opportunity to post about getting all dolled up and going out to an event, especially on her bday and an occasion. Something is up.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Did anyone happen to catch this??

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

Hustle? Hahah. Bare minimum airhead more like.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 week ago

Was she there live?! That would be a shift from her self organized all about her birthday parties. Maybe people finally declined her invites in favour of enjoying New Years with real family and friends!

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 week ago

How to hustle? Haha

[–] GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Said yes so much to herself that she’s finding that the only person she poured into was herself. Be careful what you wish for, you might just get it all.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

So many soilid friendships gone.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

That was def weird. No blabbing stories on her bday, didn’t show her face at all, or a bathroom selfie of her “great” nye outfit. She’s moving really weird.

[–] GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

On purpose. She needs the DM check ins for engagement. Also, I don’t know about others but I don’t live my days trying to say “yes”. In fact I have to say no so much because I don’t have time to worry about what I’m going to say YES to me, me, me. My yeses are for myself too but my yes it to my family and those I love. That’s what I pour my yeses into.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

I’m curious to know what she said on this CBC interview about how she spends New Years Eve? Like is she hiding because whatever she said was absolute bullshit?

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Here she is, filming in her lair. She said she celebrates NYE by celebrating her year and reflecting.

Filed and filtered by Bird.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I love how the reflection shows her REAL arm

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 week ago

Bwhahahahhaa aaah. Good catch

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

On tv from her bathroom, what a goof! I still can’t find this ffs 🤣

[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Here’a the clip. She is the queen of impressionistic speech. She is never actually saying anything.

https://imgur.com/a/olpfrYA

[–] Coconutcamera11@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

“I, me, my”….all about me me me 🙄

[–] ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 week ago

Trust it wasn't reflective, meaningful, or about anything but herself: The usual nothingness

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Maybe it’s on the cbc website somewhere??

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I tried looking for a bit, I don’t have the patience 🤣

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 week ago

Oh gosh, I found it but it’s 7hrs 😂

[–] GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

Wicked how she’s exploited both her family and herself and now, possibly single (at least for these last few days), no exploitation of how she spent her time. It’s her dual personality King Kylie/Slim Shady game.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 week ago

The thought has definitely crossed my mind.

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

She lost another 700 followers today and everyday for a week. After buying a shit ton. She's done

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago

Because her business associate husband is no longer around to manager her bot farm. She had to bulk buy a bunch before he left the picture.