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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 19 points 1 week ago (3 children)

This is her “intense therapy” 🥸 Not a licensed therapist at all, or capable of treating mental health. It all makes so much more sense now.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Nearly 200k “followers” and this is the engagement she has. I get more engagement when I post a photo of my cat, with 197 followers. Another on brand grifter for their circle jerk

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Sounds like some fake made up bullshit

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Good lord she is sooooo spoiled, it’s actually embarassing to watch the way she gets treated. She’s dressed like a child and gets treated like one. Doesn’t seem any of her kids or shame were there???

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 week ago

This whole event was super bizarre. They’re all stunted women. Generational enabling. They all need to be studied.

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago

Imagine dressing like this without a bra no less, to a family brunch? Infantile attention whore, always

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Got the same impression. Only saw Briony, her sister and her kids

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago

Her family doesn’t even want to celebrate her aside from the enabler NK, she’ll be left with nothing and nobody soon enough

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

Hanging with her fave lesbians (multiple nights in a row for Cagla) tonight. Very interesting happenings

I’ve started having a theory that her Traitors bestie developed a crush on her (which their wife caught onto and maybe Shame too) and Bird is now baiting them and leading them on. She really ramped up all the half naked bathroom photos since Traitors and I feel like she’s doing it for someone and that someone has to be C.

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I agree with your theory more than the she is Bi theory now. I just think she's too much of a pillow princess and honestly gives me low key homophobic vibes. That's why she leans into it in the most cringe ways, because she isn't actually queer. I'm just not buying it. BUT I do think she likes the attention and I could see her weaponizing it against Shame. "See? I could just go be with a woman then". 100% leading her on.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Yupp I really have a hard time seeing her with a woman but she’s clearly getting attention from someone and that’s all that’s matters to her especially when she isn’t getting it at home. She’s messing C about and they’ll just be another victim of Bird.

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago

C can get her some new followers. Appearance is all Sarah Landry cares about. She’s home wrecking white trash.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

She also has started to act as if she gives a shit about women in sports.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago

Remember when she made fun of athletic women….

[–] Oakfox@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Hi there! New here. I'm not sure if anyone commented on this and a bit late, but did anyone notice how on the episode of traitors that 🐦 left she out of nowhere seemed "off" pretty abruptly. Anyone thinking now, that she might have "done something" or had an "interaction" on the show that caused the quick attitude change. She went from super confident to VERY passive and emotional. She also never did a post about how wonderful it was to be on the show and talk about her new friends. It was almost like she pretended she never went on. Now the speculation with the co-contestant. Just makes you think 🤷🏻‍♀️

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 week ago

I didn’t watch but the weirdest part to me is her not acknowledging the show and cast mates (aside from one) post finale. She went on and on about how this was her new family blah blah then she never even congratulated the winners publicly which just screams petty and bitter to me.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (8 children)

Do you mean the episode where she started to cry and wanted to all of a sudden give up? You have a good point!

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[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

We should start a poll - when will Birdshit announce (and blame shame) for her marriage ending? Winner gets a $25 Starbucks gc 😏🙈

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Bday photos shoot reveal themes:

  1. New beginnings
  2. Divorced
  3. Later in life lesbian

And have some kind of party/trip about it.

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (14 children)

No doubt she’ll delete this but this is spot on.

Last word that didn't fit the screenshot is attention

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (5 children)

She’s veryyyyyy quiet today, especially for it being her birthday and all. No toilet poetry, no blabbing in her car, absolutely nothing except sharing birthday wishes from all her fake friends. Hasn’t even showed her mug today.

Anyone think she’ll post a photo of her kissing a girl at midnight??? I can def see it to garner some more attention,

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I think this is a good theory! She loves the engagement and we know her diehard fans would cheer on anything she does.

If they did split and L is not home she will never be able to play the I miss her or cry about Sunday drop offs because everyone has seen her leave her family behind for very non-impactful galavanting.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

This woman went on a trip right before Christmas and didn’t see her. Did the token Christmas with her kids, then haven’t seen her again since. L has been on Christmas break for 12 days now and she hasn’t spent a single fun moment with her over the holidays, other than the obligatory holiday one.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

It is very strange she hasn’t spent any time with that kid the whole Xmas break, once the advent calendar ended she stopped caring about the kid. I def think Shame took her to his folks or maybe to wherever he’s staying right now?? Because it doesn’t seem like she’s been around at all.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (15 children)

I wonder if her “fans” are questioning why she has gone from chronically online to hiding?

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (8 children)

Wonder what she is trying to accomplish. If Shame and L are spending time together and she’s alone - she loves it that way. But Bird is terrified of judgement so this is probably the only thing she can think to do that might make her appear to care.

Or she’s doing it for us? Or by not posting nonstop, as she always has, she can pretend it looks like she’s having so much fun she forgot to post?

Whatever it is, it’s manipulative and tactical.

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

It literally looks like 🐦 taking a 💩 in her backyard. Might as well! Remember her poop trauma?

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (18 children)

And what do the other 2 teens think?? You petty skank! I have no problem posting this now adult’s face after this.

[–] GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 week ago

I laughed so hard at her words!!!! Yep…still second hand embarrassment for her. And it has not one thing to do with conditioning!!! It’s that she USES SÈGGUALITY to be acceptable. Soooo many things to choose from especially when you have some children. Gather round kiddos, mommy is going to show you how to show up but all while using your body to do it. Not character, not intellect, not wit, not fortitude girls….your body!

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'm so embarrassed for Becci. Whether she jumped at the chance to sit in the cold snow to help hold the ridiculous and stupid snow globe or not, especially for Birdcrap who doesn't seem to care about her

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago

NB is such a loser bending over backwards for this witch. One day she’s going to realize just how stupid she was.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yea I bet J and B don’t feel the same way about this. There’s a reason we never see J anymore and I’m sure B is embarrassed that his friends see this.

She’s a terrible person and it’s actually infuriating watching her spin things into her favour. It’s amazing how she manages to make herself look worse every day, yet she thinks she’s doing something great.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago (8 children)
[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Only a sad, pathetic, narcissistic, egotistical bitch would have a party without her husband. My husband is one of my most favourite people (and my three kids).

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago

Agreed. If they did separate the way she’s carrying on is kinda gross, but if they didn’t really separate she’s also being gross with doing all this without him (just like everything else that she does alone really) 🤷🏻‍♀️ she kinda looks awful either way really.

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[–] frosty_ad_3723@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Ok, catching up. Her marriage is on the rocks you guys think?

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 weeks ago

10000% on the rocks. My moneys on an imminent separation announcement soon.

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