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Bump? Need monetary assistance to help get life back on track. Food, bike, bus pass, little necessities. 0/500 (hexbear.net)

submitted 3 days ago by Commiechameleon@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

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Should I take up sales or something because that seems to be all there is...

cross-posted from: https://hexbear.net/post/7179536

Recently broke up with my now ex after being mistreated emotionally sometimes physically, had been tracked using find my phone and clung to incessantly, and we would hardly leave the house. To his credit he helped here and there financially especially when my ID and social was stolen but he was always putting me down while pretending his shit didn't stink and IDK some kind of ubermensch even though he couldn't be further from it. I'd have to remind him to brush his teeth and he would clap back saying that at least his weren't broken or have cavities (very nice white teeth otherwise, the molars are a little fucked though), but yet had a terrible smile and breath and was trying to help him be more proactive in that manner so as not end up in the same boat.

Need help financially to load up a bus pass or potentially a bike( but I think I can get one tomorrow for free). I don't have any income or savings atm so money to get a place to stay may not be helpful at the moment. I'm looking into shelters and the like or might couch surf. But money to be able to get professional looking work clothes, get dental work done(which again might be free), food since it was a shared EBT card we had gotten ( I'll be working on fixing that very soon) , and idk buy clothes in general since I left Friday with my wallet, two phones, and the clothes on my body and walked to a shelter only to have him harass me about stealing a phone that he gifted me, both of them were gifts, one was cracked, the other newer and nicer and was going to transfer my assurance wireless plan to it... I got freaked out, angry and spiteful, broke the phone he was accusing me of stealing and am now currently staying at a mutual friends (who wants nothing to do with him) place until Tuesday.

The last two days I've walked 40mi, 20 when I first left, and 20 yesterday to attempt to donate plasma, but they closed like 10secs early, my feet are blistered and my thighs are oozing plasma and just sore all over from having that be the most exercise I've done in awhile, save for when I helped his sister move into her new place, but otherwise I've been bedrotting and trying to become one with the couch (not like jd Vance I assure you) or what have you... I also need placards for teeth or a water pick to ensure I can clean my messed up mouth as much as possible until I go to get them ripped out. In addition to any financial support y'all may be able to provide, any resources for someone homeless is welcomed but I'm unsure if I should post the county I'm in out of opsec concerns.

I'll post more cash sharing services but for now I've got a cash app ready to go

$commiechameleon1197

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