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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:

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[–] TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I'm sorry you're feeling depressed :(

The world truly is a depressing place, and it makes perfect sense to feel sad about all the suffering going on. That said, your chemical makeup in the brain can certainly affect how you perceive them, making the sad things seem even sadder, and the other things seem more empty and meaningless. I speak from personal experience.

I think this is also more of a thing in cishet male spaces. In my experience other kinds of people are more happy to be emotionally available and comforting.

Also a quote I saw somewhere about friendships

Deep friendships form by people knowing personal things about one another. Most people are too scared to share anything truly important or private with others, and thus most people don't develop deep friendships.