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I recently moved into a new development dystopian American burboclave. I ran unopposed for head of the home owner association's events committee, and I want to foster an actual community with stuff like game nights, holiday parties, team sports and the like. Right now, the only digital space we have is a WhatsApp (🤮) group chat with like 1/2 the community in it. Going forward, I'd like a feature set like Discord or Slack (polls, roles, channels, voip, moderation, decent mobile & desktop browser experience, etc.) that we can physically host in the community. Nice-to-haves are containerization, backup, migration, and high availability mirroring. Incidentally, I'd love to get ideas on hardware I could host this on. I hear used corporate blade-style servers are good bang for your buck, but I don't know how to begin shopping for one of those.

tl;dr newby friendly SW and HW for self hosting a Discord-esque platform? Apologies if this is a low-effort or a Let Me Google That For You situation; I'm baby

Edit: thank you all very much for your thoughts and advice. I'll research and test the software that was suggested with the knowledge that the site I stand up will likely be used by few or no people.

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[–] dan1101@lemmy.world 38 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Have the physical game nights, skip all the computer stuff. The other residents aren't going to be interested in all that.

[–] thearpist123@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

How might I find people nearby that would like to join, and then coordinate details? Knocking on doors has gone poorly.

[–] talkingpumpkin@lemmy.world 10 points 4 days ago

Leverage whatsapp and hang good old posters around the neighborhood?