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[–] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 3 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

It's interesting to me that people put so much effort into creating rules around what subtle punctuation differences mean when there's a billion reasons not to assume we know what any of it means. Typos, being in a hurry, being a different person with different opinions... Basically texting is like 50% at best for communicating emotions even if we don't make these random assumptions.

[–] moody@lemmings.world 4 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Tone is very hard to convey through text. I think rules like these can be helpful to get more information across without having to type more words.

[–] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 2 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

I mean, that's exactly my point. Unless you can know people are paying full attention, didn't make a mistake, and also know/subscribe to the exact same rules, then the potential for misunderstanding is increased not decreased.

[–] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 27 minutes ago* (last edited 27 minutes ago)

It's not fundamentally different to body language or tone in person. How do we know what a gesture is supposed to convey? Everyone needs to be on the same page, right?

And yet, it seems to work. Just as phone texts seem to work. Humans are excellent at language, we pick these things up subconsciously and through exposure over time to people's/the same person's texts

[–] moody@lemmings.world 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

If you want things to move in that direction, it takes momentum. If nobody does it for fear of confusion, then it will never change. So I say we make that little effort, and explain ourselves if need be.

[–] TrickDacy@lemmy.world 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I say let's embrace trying to be clear by using more words, not less. Within reason anyhow.

[–] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 24 minutes ago

Using more words to describe emotional content is not really how humans use language, but you do have the next best thing, which are tone indicators