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For me the biggest thing is i can strike up a conversation and shit but idk what to do after that, how do i turn it into a more regular friendship and not just "we see each other at this specific place but dont know anything about each other"
Also being a burnt out semi closeted trans woman doesnt help matters
That is what im trying to do medium/long term atm, i just wish there was a faster/more certain way
I am sure this is gonna work sooner or later too, tho
Yeah I'm much better with complete strangers than acquaintances or friends of friends.
Share things about yourself and ask about them, just avoid doing it too much too quickly. When you discuss things outside of the setting more, it gives you opportunities to invite each other to other things along with a greater sense of trust and actually being friends. imo anyway.