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For posting all the anonymous reactionary bullshit that you can't post anywhere else.

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[–] Keld@hexbear.net 29 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

~~I think that while terfs should be banned, it seems reasonable for there to be a forum for women over 40 to discuss dating. I don't know the nature of the subject in question. But what it purports to be seems fine~~.

~~The moderators are of course failing to ban bigots~~

Oof. This place is bad. Terfy, swerfy, anti kink., and cloaking support of right wing politics in pseudo feminism and its all from the mods down.

[–] Belly_Beanis@hexbear.net 24 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

"Could it be I'm still single at 40 because all I attract with my bigotry is other bigots, especially misogynistic bigots? No, clearly it's the trans women, who are firebombing Chicago as part of the auntie Vuh supersoldier terrorist network."

[–] JoeByeThen@hexbear.net 19 points 2 weeks ago

it's the trans women, who are firebombing Chicago as part of the auntie Vuh supersoldier terrorist network.

nicholson-yes

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 20 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Sounds a rehash of r/femaledatingstrategy without the one single benefit it had of making chuds mad.

[–] Keld@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

It is explicitly a rehash of that

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 18 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

Yeah I had a skim of their front page transphobia, homophobia, biphobia, lesbophobia, racism, xenophobia, Islamophobia, classism, SWERFism etc.

The difference is that femaledatingstrategy despite having all the above still did a lot criticism of reactionary and misogynistic cishet male behaviour, which this lacks.

It's like looking at all the fucked up stuff Jordan Peterson said and saying okay no more of this cleaning your room shit. Like the one "Brock clock being right twice a day" has gone.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago

It seems like the sub was normal about trans stuff a few years back but it's now TERF mods and users. Nazi bar etc

[–] Keld@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

All I can really say is that I see bigotry, openly and explicitly as a policy by the moderators, and that this makes it a space for bigots by bigots. I cant comment on the history of the place or what worth a different sub could have had. I assume you know what youre talking about

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Yeah definitely this place is vile and full of bigots. And I must say nothing above was a defence of r/FDS it was equally awful.

But the latter would occasionally make other terrible bigots mad when they called out the actual shitty behaviour of specific men.

Reddit chuds calling them misandrists and stuff like that. Real let-them-fight moment

[–] ClathrateG@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago