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i liked her and she broke up with me. (thelemmy.club)

submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by nonBInary@thelemmy.club to c/lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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i need support, im panicking right now. i swear, the only people who ever like me realize they're aromantic or fear of commitment.

edit: not panicking, need someone to talk to. i'm upset about someone who was never mine. she just liked me, she wasn't mine. i wasn't hers.

i need to process things, ugh

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[–] thoughtfuldragon@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

The approach I've taken to break ups in the past is to list out what went well and what didn't. Ask questions like "what does this teach me about my own needs?" And just think about what I should look for in the future.

[–] nonBInary@thelemmy.club 5 points 2 months ago

someone who actually does care apparently, and doesn't say "maybe" but "YES" to liking me.