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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (20 children)

Peace out 🍋! Mommy’s gone again and really doesn’t care about JK - she has her own life to live after the trauma of staying home with your siblings. This woman knows nothing about balance and the tightrope most working mothers walk while they work and also support their children. She has the privilege of saying no so she can be there for important times in her child’s life but has chosen to dig her heels in and believes this is ‘her’ time so the answer must be yes. I really believe that making the decision to bring a human into this world is a sacred pact and it’s a duty to do whatever you can to make this new person feel as safe and secure as possible. When you’ve made that choice you know that you’re not going to come first for a very long time and live accordingly. If you’re unwilling to make that commitment then don’t have another baby!

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

How any mother that follows her finds her inspirational or someone to look up to as a mother is truly out of their mind. If anything she is teaching me how NOT to be a mother. She is anything but a mother. I can’t wait for the day L is old enough to not want anything to do with her anymore. Clearly B and J want nothing to do with her because they’ve become nonexistent.

Like imagine watching your mom repack her suitcase every week to go on yet another trip and leave you behind? And now to Disney without the actual kids? Pathetic. I hate her.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago

This 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 two of my three kids are the same ages as hers and if anything they need me more now!! Seriously her kids must be so sick of her shit. I hate her.

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