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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.
Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:
- Both “200” and “160” are 2 minutes in microwave math
- When you’re a kid, you don’t realize you’re also watching your mom and dad grow up.
- More dreams have been destroyed by alarm clocks than anything else
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I didn't marry my ex, 4 kids, over 20 years, we were a family. There should be (there were for us) forms you can fill out to give each other access for medical information and also to set each other as the responsible party if you are incapable. You don't have to be married. We had to get something notarized, that was all. Find out if you can do that where you are.
(a) depends on the country and (b) is always slower and more complicated than when married.
Say your partner gets hospitalized and isn't concious. As a married person you have the same last name and done. As an unmarried person like you say, you first have to go hompe, find that notarized paper, convince the hospital lawyer that it means and likely you will have to repeat the process for each new hospital stay.