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Romance Animes That Aren't..Weird? (hexbear.net)
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Looking for romance (or magical girl like sailor moon) animes to watch with my wife that aren't "odd."

No upskirts or weird non-character sexualization (if the main characters are attracted to each other it's vastly different than sexual harassment by schoolmates/teachers/the invisible camera man..)

No children (obviously, but 🤮 at so many titles in this genre)

Either apolitical (impossible), or at least empowering to women and not the typical Western/Japanese "your job is to be your husband's token"

Edit: Non hetero-normative animes fully welcome but I would be lying if I said she wouldn't be pissed at a lesbian anime if it's overtly and obviously written for/by men.

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[–] purpleworm@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Well Dandadan is pretty weird but not in a creepy/male gazey way

The first episode is not literally the worst creepy male gaze shit ever put to screen, but that's mainly the indictment of other anime. The later hot spring attack is gratuitous and pandering to creeps, but not as horrendous, but don't worry, it will get back to elements that are nearly as bad as E1 in a season or two (the idol and the blackmailer, mainly)