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Looking for romance (or magical girl like sailor moon) animes to watch with my wife that aren't "odd."

No upskirts or weird non-character sexualization (if the main characters are attracted to each other it's vastly different than sexual harassment by schoolmates/teachers/the invisible camera man..)

No children (obviously, but 🤮 at so many titles in this genre)

Either apolitical (impossible), or at least empowering to women and not the typical Western/Japanese "your job is to be your husband's token"

Edit: Non hetero-normative animes fully welcome but I would be lying if I said she wouldn't be pissed at a lesbian anime if it's overtly and obviously written for/by men.

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[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

you probably want to look into shoujo. it's targetted at girls, so it's a lot less horny. it's also usually lower budget and less is made, though

for lesbian anime bloom into you is good. though i think the go-to recommendation for that is Nana, I can't say I've watched it.

more recently, i really enjoyed the apothecary diaries. there's some romance but very little. and i guess there's some sexualization but like, it's not really fanservice as much as there are multiple sex worker characters bc the mc grew up in the pleasure district.

[–] Ildsaye@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

The queerness in Nana is all repressed and closeted, but it's there. Nana's an exceptionally-crafted cautionary tale about the destructive influence of the straight lifestyle.