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[–] qwerty@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 2 months ago (5 children)

All the people on here calling guys who like military/tacticool aesthetic insecure are no different than people calling guys fags for wearing skinny jeans.

[–] notarobot@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 months ago

No. Thinking that girly bags make you girly is the same as saying skinny jeans makes you gay.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

no different

  • Being insecure when you see a guy in tight pants and feeling things your pastor told you that you shouldn't

  • Noticing insecurity in others, as they scramble to camouflage something they've internalized as an "other gender" coded activity.

Turning your diaper bag into a tacti-cool military gear is more akin to the sorority sports team that needs to color everything pink and add a tutu as an accessory, so nobody will mistake them as being too butch. It's the fashion equivalent of shouting "No Homo!"

[–] dmention7@midwest.social -3 points 2 months ago

Found the guy who is afraid to wear skinny jeans or use a normal diaper bag.