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[โ€“] GraniteM@lemmy.world 45 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Absent of the gender assumption, it's good advice for any spouse to greet their partner when they come home. There's a good chance that they've been working and being welcomed home can relieve a lot of the stress that builds up from being out of the house. It makes one feel like one has come home, rather than just come back to a place where one can take off one's shoes.

[โ€“] Lucelu2@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 weeks ago

I just want to know... who does not greet their partner when they return home? I take the advice there as a more servile action... like bringing slippers and a cocktail dressed up with heels and full make up? I mean, in the 1920s, many women worked. So maybe this is advice for the upper middle class that hire housemaids?

[โ€“] ech@lemmy.ca 0 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

It doesn't say "greet". It says "listen for the latchkey and meet him on the threshold". That's demented. And I already agreed with bizarroland, so not really sure what your point is here.

[โ€“] shalafi@lemmy.world 19 points 2 weeks ago

And why do that?

"Show your partner you care that they're there"

That's the idea. You are looking for sexism that isn't here.