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when i first heard about the male loneliness epidemic i was like oh yeah close camaraderie and bonding between men is often discouraged in favor of competition or, if not discouraged, at least filtered through a lens of individualism that precludes deep connections. and then i learned what people meant by it (men arent getting laid) to which i say skill issue

to all the men out there not getting laid: try less hard to get laid and try more hard to be an enjoyable and relaxing presence

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[–] bollybing@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yes. There you're addressing friendship and in the rest of the comment you imply that its easy to find a partner by meeting a very low bar.

[–] BussyCat@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

“ It’s not that they can easily find a partner if they meet a few requirements it’s that lacking those requirements makes dating much harder ”