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How do you make yourself visible? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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Are there ways that you are able to signal queerness?

People keep assuming my partner and I are two straight women, and it's just awkward sometimes. I know my partner would like if people saw us as a visibly queer couple, so I was hoping for tips.

Usually I try to engage in "PDA" like holding hands or kissing in public, but even that doesn't seem to always work (I have done this and had a waiter still assume we're relatives rather than partners).

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[–] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 6 points 5 months ago (2 children)

I know my partner would like if people saw us as a visibly queer couple

One of yall is gonna need blue hair and an undercut.

/s kinda?

[–] RizzRustbolt@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

Just need one of those eyebrow lines now-a-days.