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I do so much better in small groups then I do 1 on 1 and I hate it (hexbear.net)

submitted 1 month ago by BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

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Just sucks wanting to/actually hanging out with someone 1 on 1 and there's silence and I worry they aren't having a good time with me. Then we bring another person in and everyone is talking a lot more and seem more comfortable. Why am I weird alone with people :/ tbh makes me very worried about dating or being in a relationship too. Even in a platonic friendship it makes me feel very anxious about what they think of me and our relationship. Like idk I like you I just don't have much to say but then suddenly do when there's more people?? I don't get it so how is anyone else going to

inb4 autism

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago

I have a friend I suspect is like this and fwiw I don't hold it against her or anything. It probably takes some emotional intelligence to understand it I'll admit but if we hanged out I'd think similar. I'd be like "Bounti she's cool just anxious, is all good" big-cool