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Is it too early for a (21F) proposal to her? (23F) (lemmy.ml)
submitted 5 days ago by wendyz@lemmy.ml to c/lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years. I want to surprise her by proposing to her and being all fancy for our hangout soon, but I don’t want to move too fast. 3 years should be fine, right??

Anyway, I’ll tell you how it goes!!

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[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Is this the kind of surprise she would be okay with? Have you talked to her about it before?

[–] wendyz@lemmy.ml 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Yep!

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Alright then, hope it goes well 🙂

[–] wendyz@lemmy.ml 3 points 3 days ago (2 children)

It did! She said yes!!

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Awesome! Thank you for telling us!

[–] wendyz@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Of course! Hey, we noticed you’re plural. We are too!!

(we’re going to sleep for real so we will respond later)

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

Excellent! We might be starting a plural community on this instance (blahaj) too since lemmee is closing. Hope y'all sleep well!

[–] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I'm interested in this comm, I would love to know more

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

What exactly would you like to know?

[–] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

thats a good question, i didnt think this far...

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago

grins and winks

[–] wendyz@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Please do! And thanks!