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[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yes please. I’m sorry guys, but it’s not a super power to “be able to keep going and going” without effort. That’s called desensitivity, and it’s troubling.

I don’t like always having to be the one to decide when sex has to stop. I don’t like when every act ends because I’m getting sore. It makes me feel like a buzzkill. If you can’t sometimes stop yourself first, sex risks becoming a chore for your partner to endure, instead of a mutually-enjoyable act of bonding.

YMMV, talking to your partner is better than assuming anything based off a Lemmy comment. This is just some food for thought.