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I have a trainee in my team, he's reasonably good at his job, but he has a habit of explaining things to me that I explained to him in the last month.
Still, better than the guy who I had to show even basic tasks 3 times. Who when he didn't do it right, and didn't ask for help, blamed me ... despite his signature being on the records.
Oh ffs. Blame shifting is a classic abusive personality characteristic, and at best it shows he's a dick.
Indeed, he filed complaints for abusive behaviour against me, my boss (also a woman) and the only POC on the team, got the union to support him, and was then signed off sick for stress for 6 months ... he was fired in the end, and the union reps (all dudes) apologised for just taking him at his word.
TBH I'm just glad he's gone, morale has shot through the roof and we're crushing it now :-)
Abusive complaint about the female and non white people only? What a shocking surprise! Not. Being seen as the victim is one of misogynists favourite things to do. So glad he's gone and well done for getting through that
Thank you for letting me vent :-)
Np anytime 😊