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Why exclude (edit: feminist) men? (lemmy.ml)
submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by jsomae@lemmy.ml to c/WomensStuff@lazysoci.al
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This is an inclusive community for all things women. Whether you’re here for make up tips, feminism or just friendly chit chat, we’ve got you covered.

I feel like men can do all of those things, so I don't see why we are excluding them. Just because it's a women-centric community doesn't mean they shouldn't be allowed. I think we should exclude people who are bigoted instead, or even people who just don't "get" women's issues.

Aside: I'm personally irritated that make-up is what's considered a woman-centric topic. That's kind of reductive -- not everyone is femme.

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[–] jsomae@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Well, your response is identical to, for instance, the response given in terf communities I used to peruse. (Relax -- I'm a better person now.) The reason I am asking is that I think exclusivity is a bad thing, rather than the absence of a good thing -- i.e., the world would be better with fewer exclusive places.

I'd counter with this -- why don't you want men in the community? And does the answer you give to that apply to every man, or just a subset? I understand, of course, that the easiest way to exclude that subset is to exclude all men, and I wouldn't want to ask the mod team to do more work for free.