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Women are trained to not value ourselves, and put ourselves down. What makes you stand out?

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[–] RainaLillius@lemm.ee 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Nothing. I'm very basic, boring, and generally go completely unnoticed.

I'm a trans woman who used to live in texas, so blending in a more self defense than anything else. Since I've moved to a safer state I have begun occasionally wearing something a bit more brave. Heels really make me stand out as I'm already 5' 10". But old habits can be hard to break.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago

lol, learning to live in Texas and blend in as a trans woman is its own special skill 👏 👏 👏