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[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Fucking hell that was insightful thanks for sharing. It shows how bad certain fields can get, and what kind of things happen. Sounds like you handled it great... I know what you mean about drawing a line quickly and HARD. Then repeatedly drawing that fucking line!

I've often found the saying "people don't quit jobs they quit managers" true. They make or break an office for you. My bff works in tech and she's found exactly the same thing with managers... she's had one that was sort of OK and 4 truly abysmal ones. Was there much bullying in the field?