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What's a lie you've told a man to avoid outright rejecting him? (lazysoci.al)

submitted 2 months ago by CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al to c/WomensStuff@lazysoci.al

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It's something we need to do sometimes to stay safe. What are things you've said?

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[–] 93maddie94@lemm.ee 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I guess it wasn’t technically a lie, but my manager at the restaurant I worked at would “jokingly” ask me on a date at least once a shift we worked together, if not multiple times. Finally, I said yes, also jokingly, and to pick me up the next day. After he obviously didn’t, every time he would ask again I told him I gave him a chance and he stood me up. He stopped asking a little bit after that

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 2 points 2 months ago

That's a really clever way of doing it, jokingly waste his time so it goes away.