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[โ€“] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's pretty toxic to be too shy for self care. A la The Giving Tree. That tree had issues.

Not on this level though, this is like the nice version of a white little white lie. Except instead of being an inconsequential amount of deception, it's making someone else feel better about themselves on a regular basis.