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Does anyone know of a guide or infographic for explaining trans identities to parents? [CROSSPOST] (lemmygrad.ml)

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cross-posted from: https://lemmygrad.ml/post/7007283

Basically, I'm planning on having that conversation with my parents soon (who have never even suspected me of being anything but cishet).

My parents are ... I'm not sure how conservative or liberal they are in regards to LGBTQ issues (we're an Indian family that never talks about things like this). I know I'm supposed to be leading the conversation, but I'm not sure how well I can explain even the concept of being transgender to my parents (I doubt they have ever thought about it). They might take me a lot more seriously if I can get an "official" looking document, and it will help with establishing a baseline.

Your help will be much appreciated.

I'm crossposting to here because Hexbear seems to be down

Edit: I'll just try to gauge their thinking on LGBTQ issues for now. Mentally speaking, I need time to sort everything out. I need to stop panicking.

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[–] DrainedOctagon@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 1 week ago

Ah, they seem more right than I would've preferred them to be. If they were at least INC voters or anything, you could probably point out that their manifesto had some stuff about protecting LGBT persons, and that could've probably given some validity.

And yeah, the issue with your extended family also makes sense, even my family does not let me do a lot of stuff simply because of what they think my extended family, the neighbours and the rest of society would think.

I guess you probably would have to take the same steps as how you'd radicalise a liberal. Constantly talking to your parents about these issues over a period of a few years and nudging them towards doing research on these topics and realising that this is normal and that there are treatments that would help deal with dysphoria. It's gonna be very hard but that's the only method that I can think of right now, rather than going full hard on to it.

Also, I remember reading like three years ago that conversion therapy was made illegal in India. I do know that the laws that exist on paper does not correlate very neatly in practise, but if the need arises, it might be a helpful info to have so that you could protect yourself or anything.