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submitted 4 days ago by Badge@lemmy.world to c/AskUSA@discuss.online

Hi European here.

I always heard America is pretty competitive and that the people are very direct/speak their mind.

I'm quite the sensitive person, so I was wondering if it could be hard for me if I would ever go to America and if I needed to become more "tough".

And would someone like me even be welcomed or would I be rejected?

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[-] Daze@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 days ago

Sensitivity is more than fine! You'd fit right in. However, you very much need to be able to firmly advocate for yourself, and be confident in what is necessary for your health needs.

[-] ziviz@lemmy.sdf.org 0 points 4 days ago

I feel like it also depends on where you go. It's a big country and the culture can be drastically different in different areas, even within the same state.

[-] Badge@lemmy.world 0 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

True. I just don't get why so many Americans can be so confident. I hope I can keep up with that. Cause my parents ruined my confidence with all the trauma they introduced to me. But maybe it would help just going out of the country of my parents

[-] Daze@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 days ago

Literally just lean into your accent and it'll carry you 100% of the way through conversation ๐Ÿ˜œ Don't even worry about feeling like you're hamming it up. We can't tell the difference!

[-] Badge@lemmy.world 0 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

What do you mean by accent? I can only do an American accent (maybe a little British if I try hard)

[-] Daze@sh.itjust.works 0 points 4 days ago

No I mean your native accent. I see you're from germany, and while you might not think you have one, I'd dare to assure you that you do! Even baseline "American" is technically transatlantic IIRC

[-] Badge@lemmy.world 0 points 4 days ago

I think I watched too much American TV it's kinda hard for me to do the German accent now and it feels weird to do tbh

[-] Entropywins@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

Unless it's absolutely perfect, a native speaker will pick up your accent...how's your "th" that's usually a dead give away for native German speakers.

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