I find my play partners via a dating platform for non-monogamous people. Which one to use will depend on your country.
In my profile there, I am transparent about my relationship status (married in a consensually open relationship) and my intentions (looking for a FWB).
When time permits, I go on a date with someone new just like a monogamous single person would. Usually, that would be a meal and on later dates, some kind of shared activity like gaming or hiking. I strongly prefer some sort of connection, so I don't push for sex and just enjoy the company. This is why I'd have no issue with my FWB being demi.
I agree with you regarding the difficulty. A FWB just doesn't have the significance of a long term partner and I experienced lots of schedule conflicts. Even after an established connection including sex, I experienced a quick "falling out of love" from my FWB, leading to less regular messaging, to not finding a time when we're both available and finally to ghosting.
So, to summarize: find the right platform for your country. If you're in Germany, send me a DM and I can give you further information. Good luck!
I find my play partners via a dating platform for non-monogamous people. Which one to use will depend on your country. In my profile there, I am transparent about my relationship status (married in a consensually open relationship) and my intentions (looking for a FWB). When time permits, I go on a date with someone new just like a monogamous single person would. Usually, that would be a meal and on later dates, some kind of shared activity like gaming or hiking. I strongly prefer some sort of connection, so I don't push for sex and just enjoy the company. This is why I'd have no issue with my FWB being demi.
I agree with you regarding the difficulty. A FWB just doesn't have the significance of a long term partner and I experienced lots of schedule conflicts. Even after an established connection including sex, I experienced a quick "falling out of love" from my FWB, leading to less regular messaging, to not finding a time when we're both available and finally to ghosting.
So, to summarize: find the right platform for your country. If you're in Germany, send me a DM and I can give you further information. Good luck!