Though I would love to help, I'm no better with a list of unfinished projects :| I could help setup something over a call at one point but I am probably not a good person to keep you accountable.
I use TrueNAS (HexOS) to host Immich (Google Photos), Paperless NGX (Google Drive sort of), Headscale (Tailscale VPN), Syncthing file sync, Backblaze cloud backups, Emby, etc.
I would recommend Emby over JellyFin personally. I have used Plex, JellyFin, and Emby. Plex is removing the point of using it, JellyFin seemed constantly broken for me. Emby worked the first time, and has continued to work without issue since.
New link and photos. Water restrictions in place for Calgary and surrounding areas.
https://www.calgary.ca/emergencies/feeder-main-repair/bearspaw-water-main-break.html
They also don't get soggy and dissolve when mixed with dressing the way I imagine normal bread would.