It's no joke. Finding the video that clicks just right to scratch that itch is just an experience on another level.
I guess no one is coming here looking for wisdom related to porn consumption..... but what is working great for me is making an account in raindrop.io and whenever you find something that clicks, save the bookmark here. Organise into categories you like. I tag pornstars names as well, since sometimes I want to see a particular person's work.
Sometimes I browse and save bookmarks of good new content. Sometimes I just want to get to business and I can find a bookmark for exactly the kind of thing I'm looking for.
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Or the easiest way is to search for new vids from Vixen or Wow Girls. Those are always top quality.