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Why YSK: Getting along in a new social environment is easier if you understand the role you've been invited into.


It has been said that "if you're not paying for the service, you're not the customer, you're the product."

It has also been said that "the customer is always right".

Right here and now, you're neither the customer nor the product.

You're a person interacting with a website, alongside a lot of other people.

You're using a service that you aren't being charged for; but that service isn't part of a scheme to profit off of your creativity or interests, either. Rather, you're participating in a social activity, hosted by a group of awesome people.

You've probably interacted with other nonprofit Internet services in the past. Wikipedia is a standard example: it's one of the most popular websites in the world, but it's not operated for profit: the servers are paid-for by a US nonprofit corporation that takes donations, and almost all of the actual work is volunteer. You might have noticed that Wikipedia consistently puts out high-quality information about all sorts of things. It has community drama and disputes, but those problems don't imperil the service itself.

The folks who run public Lemmy instances have invited us to use their stuff. They're not business people trying to make a profit off of your activity, but they're also not business people trying to sell you a thing. This is, so far, a volunteer effort: lots of people pulling together to make this thing happen.

Treat them well. Treat the service well. Do awesome things.

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[–] zombuey@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

so a real question if a one instance decided to setup for advertising and used that money to pay mods would that be acceptable?

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[–] Shippuu@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago

Let’s make lemmy the best community in the world without corporate greed!

[–] oceane@jlai.lu 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

The sentence “if you're not paying for the service, you're not the customer, you're the product” might be accurate, but it would make more sense to me to say that if you're not the customer, you're the worker.

Facebook and Twitter run on unpaid labor, mostly made by abuse survivors and especially teenagers. Twitter has been enshittified pretty fast so this has been the case since at least 2012. These aren't just scam, the long-running relationship between the scammer and his victims imply most components that you would find in a standard definition of abuse, including limiting their ability to conceptualize what's happening to them, for example with hard or hidden characters limits.

Edit : I've forgot to mention that, but Mastodon also optimizes for engagement, I believe that we needed that to get attention from the media and thus to gradually build migration waves. There are good reasons to use Mastodon, but there are also forms of abuse there, total institutions as would say Goffman – defined by their inmates' isolation within a differentiated society. So there's a lot of bullshit. If we want to get rid of that, we need people to use software that won't abuse them, such as https://bonfirenetworks.org.

[–] Sterben@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Thank you for clearfy. Good thing to know.

[–] Books@kbin.social 2 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Quick question: I have an account on Lemmy.world and kbin.social.. When trying to post on Lemmy.world it just spins and posts.. so I bopped over to my kbin account and one thing I noticed is that Kbin says it has 39 comments, but Lemmy.world this same post has 139... how do I square this circle?

[–] troyunrau@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 years ago (2 children)

There is sometimes a delay between the time when you make a post or comment and the time it gets synchronized by all of the federated instances. Depends on the instances in question, and their bandwidth and server load and etc.

Furthermore, comments made by a user whose instance is federated won't show up. A little in depth on this one:

Lemmygrad.ml is full of obnoxious tankies and is not federated with most instances. But they are federated to lemmy.ml. So users of lemmygrad.ml can comment on posts to lemmy.ml. But as a user of lemmy.ca which is federated with lemmy.ml and not lemmygrad.ml, if I go read that post on lemmy.ca, I won't see the comments made by users of lemmygrad.ml. basically it's a Venn diagram.

Beehaw.org is defederated from a few of the larger instances, so you won't see comments from lemmy.world users on posts hosted on beehaw.org.

It's weird, but it is a feature not a bug.

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[–] Djinger@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I think a Black Arrow off the top rope would get you the three count

[–] Radin@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I think you might have responded to the wrong thread.

[–] MeetInPotatoes@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Let's not be so quick to rush to judgment there, eh?

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[–] Raiden11X@programming.dev 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Lost comments like theirs will never not be funny lol

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[–] mx3m@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

“If you’re not paying for the service, you’re not the customer, you’re the product.”

I see this everywhere, it’s the logical fallacy equivalent of “everything that’s rare has value”.

I’m sure most people, on the top of their head, can think of at least 3 products that are free to use and aren’t engineered to leverage their private information (Wikipedia anyone?)

What is true though, is that if you’re not paying for the product or service, SOMEBODY ELSE definitely is. So the question is: “who is paying for me? And why are they paying for me? What is at stake for them?”

[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (7 children)

I’m actually paying monthly to help with server costs. What am I?

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[–] xikubs@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

That is magnificent 👏👏👏

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