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I can wear a dress to work and nobody criticizes me. I’d be really sad if I had to wear pants all the time, they’re just not as comfortable. Let’s normalize pretty dresses for dudes!

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[-] kubok@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago

A few years ago, back in the Netherlands, the male bus drivers of a certain public transportation company were forced to wear long pants by their 'managers'. Their female colleagues had a more comfortable uniform with a skirt. As a protest, a number of male bus drivers started borrowing the uniforms of their femaile colleagues. HR gave in. Good.

[-] paddirn@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Pants are cool and all, but having to shave almost daily just to keep up appearances is worse. Women can go ages without shaving their legs (some don't even grow hair on their legs, so they don't even have that), and nobody will notice. For a guy, you're basically a bum off the street if your facial hair growth is like 2 or 3 days old. You might have that sweet spot where a day or two of growth looks "rugged", but it only lasts for a few minutes and only in the right lighting, then you somehow cross over into looking like a pathetic alcoholic.

[-] menemen@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Grow a beard?

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[-] Schart@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Skirts, dresses, capris, shoulder length sleeves shirts... I'm over here suffering in long pants and long sleeves all summer.

[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

I am fine but thank you for your concern.

[-] baggins@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago

I have a skirt to wear around the house :)

[-] QueenAlucia@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I already see more men wearing skirts in summer and it brings me so much joy. I've said it before and will say it again; clothes don't need to be gendered. If something looks good on a woman it will look good on a man too, and vice versa.

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[-] Owlchemist@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

but nobody “has to” wear pants. im not wearing any, and if I can do it anyone can

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[-] Makeitstop@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Been wearing a kilt for years. I will never go back. Pants are tight, restrictive, and lack much needed ventilation. And let's be honest, they weren't designed to accommodate the male anatomy. Much better to have a kilt and enjoy the breeze between your knees.

[-] Shinzid@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Southeast Asian batik clothes are a nice alternative to western clothing (for both men and women)

Here they can be considered both formal and casual so you can wear it for anything. I'm a big fan of batik pants myself.

[-] Alkider@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

The Scottish are way ahead of ya. those kilts look pretty comfortable.

[-] SJ_Zero@lemmy.fbxl.net 5 points 1 year ago

Wanna know what I wear under me kilt?

Me shoes!

[-] pegathith@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Yeah, but it's worth the trade off. Men's clothes typically have pockets FOR DAYS.

[-] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 year ago

Was hot enough the other day I pulled out the ranger panties at work, no shame. Those are good enough tbh!

[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I can wear a kilt and it's like a dress (well, skirt) but nobody calls me a faggot.

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[-] Boldizzle@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Chino pants are comfy enough for me.

[-] float@waveform.social 5 points 1 year ago

at any previous job I would agree, but I work in a datacenter now that is not only quite cold, but also has lots of strong sources of blowing air that could be problematic with the wrong dress. Whenever I go to renfest I wear my kilt and fucking love it though.

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