Look in to SQlabs saddles. I did 10 000km bikepacking on one and it was great. The one I picked wasn't especially nice looking but you can buy nicer looking ones.
It isn't for everyone, some people can't stand it and it takes some time to get used to it. So maybe it will be good option for you.
I'm testing Brooks leather saddle right now and it is ok too (I bought it mostly for better durability than the SQlabs foam) but it needs to be broken in to a bit and isn't nice from the start (also the price is quite steep).
