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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 21 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (12 children)

Awkward mishap? Is that what you call fucking up 2 marriages and stealing someone’s partner? I’m going to need a full discussion, Thanks!

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[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I have the same bleph scar as Sarah (on one eye). The other side didn't have the higher-up one. 😂 Normally, the scar is hidden in the crease; however, the higher-up scar happens when you have a significant amount of loose skin to remove. There is no way she didn't get upper bleph surgery. Botox for migraines would lower her brow, not raise it, and no amount of Botox can lift a heavily hooded eye.

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[–] Mostlycivil@lemmy.ca 18 points 1 week ago (2 children)

She’s on a role downvoting today! We are trying to get this pos out of the group!

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 18 points 1 week ago

I’m convinced NK is one of them as well. There’s much history of nana bullying in Guelph and online. It’s where bird has learned her mean girl tactics.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

There is more than one person downvoting in the group based on the ratio of upvotes on most of my comments.

[–] Mostlycivil@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I agree with you. Ironic that sometimes there’s a 2-3% Iceland viewing

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 week ago (12 children)
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[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Iceland lady hurts her own reputation by doing this. I wonder whether Sarah pays her friends to downvote and report, or if they're just loyal soldiers? It's pretty pathetic.

[–] Mostlycivil@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago

All members of the 🐦cult!

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[–] mapper@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 week ago (2 children)

lots of downvoting already today, people tuning in all the way from austria again!

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Is Bird having a Reddit party at her house? All the usual suspects are MIA from their stories. I wonder if Alicia has made it out of bed yet? Maybe C took the day off of work to join in on the festivities. **Thanks for the update 🐦. Looks like 🗻 just rolled out of bed

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yep! I wonder if they’re staying in Austria all day today.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I see Switzerland is in the house!

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago (29 children)

Our friend M is posting on the new Reddit. Really hope she can keep giving us some tea.

She also posted this on Instagram. She’s the saviour we’ve been looking for!!

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago (10 children)

I’m curious if anyone here feels the need to hire a photographer to ‘document your life’ every six or so months? Does anyone here spend their days taking pictures and videos of themselves and then posting them all day? Or do you just scroll through your camera roll looking at all the pictures you’ve taken of yourself and then repost a couple of them?

[–] ThatOrangeBird@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Not much life being documented if all it is is you posing blankly in front of a wall now is there. I think she does these to give the impression she's a working, busy model, and it probably does fool a good number of her followers.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Is she also fooling herself? She really seems to have the need to be the main character, the centre of attention and hiring a photographer, hair and makeup makes her feel like the spotlight is on her. Then she puts these pics in her stories and laps up the attention from her followers. When she doesn’t have any modelling jobs (there haven’t been any for quite a while) she engages in a game of make believe and then justifies it by saying she’s documenting her life. She’s not. That was just a day when she posed in different clothes and a stranger took pictures and told her she’s great.

[–] GumboYaYa@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

And the words “the world really wants us to feel like 💩”, don’t really resonate with me. She’s adding to that misery all by herself and being the force behind what’s she’s claiming to be a victim of. Showing up in life inauthentically is harmful to others especially those that you are “influencing”. When someone has a critique about my behavior I don’t automatically assume someone is “trying to make me feel like crap”! I always ask myself if it is true.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago

I agree that she pushes her view that everyone is out to hurt you or put you down is not the best way to make your way in the world and the fact she keeps pushing it on her followers can change how they see things. She wants them to think she’s out there in her underwear fighting the good fight for them! I remember the oldest daughter was taking her grandmother to lunch and this one says how great it was since it was done out of love and wasn’t transactional. I couldn’t believe it but then realized she sees all relationships as transactional so this was eye-opening for her.

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[–] bellaportuguesexo@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] bunniculamonroe@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Lol! Is JH still in Japan?

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[–] Mostlycivil@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago

Wonder what other kind of spooning 🐦and ⛰️ are doing besides their ears?!😂🙄😂

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (8 children)

These people are Serial….

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (7 children)

Wow, Thanks for showing us you still like nuts in your mouth 🤣

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 week ago

Proves she tags companies off screen to get attention, since they replied. Loser.

[–] No_really_why@lemmy.ca 16 points 1 week ago

If you’re filming yourself eat… that’s the best you’ve got… it’s time to put the phone down.

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (10 children)
[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 week ago

What an amazing read. Too bad bird wouldn't even be able to read it and take away any useful information. Too much intellect and big words for her to even process.

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