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Nonbinary

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An inclusive place for members of all stripes that don't fit into our culture's binary categories of gender.

founded 2 years ago
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i really wanna make it easy for nonbinary lesbians to find resources and feel heard
that's the reason behind making the space

when the internet is flooding people's mind with just stereotypes and misinformation i wanna make a space where people can flood their minds with positivity!


The Community is over Matrix
here's the link ~ https://matrix.to/#/#nonbinarylesbians:matrix.org

Whats So Special About it ?
-- there's an resources room/channel where i put resources
-- there's an meme's room/channel where i try to upload nonbinary lesbians memes
-- there's an links room/channel where i upload links of different nonbinary lesbian media e.g. blogs .. articles .. tiktoks ... positive comments

New to Matrix ?
here's the Joining Guide : https://joinmatrix.org/guide/
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To Mods : i hope its okay if i share the link of this nonbinary community in my nonbinary lesbians resources room/channel and in non-binary wiki ... plz let me know

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[–] lalah@sakurajima.moe 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

@surfacetension looks cool but I've never used matrix before, what app would you recommend? does it matter?

[–] surfacetension@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

if you want to use matrix on mobile device i'd suggest fluffy chat or element
and if you want to use matrix on computer device .. you can try element or cinny or fluffy

cinny gives discord vibes
element is different
and fluffy feelsl telegram

... it dosent really matter , its just what serves you the best

i wanted something like discord ui and opensource and officially listed in matrix docs .. so i choose cinny .. but on my phone i use fluffy

fluffy just works best with my phone

[–] Tuuktuuk@piefed.social 2 points 1 month ago

FluffyChat still doesn't support showing threads as threads. I'd recommend using something that does. Basically Element.

Although, I will absolutely switch to FluffyChat once it properly supports threads!

[–] surfacetension@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

i'd say try fluffy in mobile if you have never used matrix before
and in pc .. try cinny or element

[–] IAmYouButYouDontKnowYet@reddthat.com 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

What is nonbinary lesbian/gay?

Edit: what is nonbinary? And what is it in reference to gay/lesbian?

[–] lalah@sakurajima.moe 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

@IAmYouButYouDontKnowYet nonbinary is an umbrella term for people who don't consider themselves to only be a man or a woman. so multigender people, agender people, people with culture-specific genders (like two-spirit for Native Americans), etc.

in simplest terms non-binary lesbian means

non-men who loves non-men and also identifies as an non-binary

[–] Tuuktuuk@piefed.social 2 points 1 month ago

Some nonbinary people express as whatever they have always expressed. They might be okay with their colleagues referring to them according to how they express, but feel seen and respected if their nonbinarity is taken into account.

I would interpret "nonbinary leabian" as a person who has always expressed as female and at some point understood that they are actually nonbinary and who likes female traits attractive and male traits unattractive in a potential partner.